Such a strong word is “hate” yet I apparently “hate” another person in this industry so much so I think its time to put the record straight on a subject that is an unpleasant one but one which I think I need to be in the open arena with.

There is a certain agency owner (and remember I have always avoided, except for once, naming any specific agency and I will continue to follow that pathway now) that crossed my path and made my life difficult for a while.  Openness is not appreciated in this industry as it prefers to stay below the parapet because most of the activities surrounding agency owners is seen as a very grey area of the law.

When Sue’s Diary came alive, my comments reverberated round the escorts and escort agencies in the Manchester and Leeds regions and whilst many people were fascinated that I was so open, on the other hand, others were both annoyed and spitting feathers at what I was saying and over the months I found that ways of trying to shut me up were very evidently being explored and utilised.  I got to the stage of real fright and whilst I came out fighting for a while, I eventually called the police in for assistance then went off line for some months and, since re-emerging from that silence, most of the time, things have been more or less quiet.

Some time back however, my son was working with one particular agency owner.  This person had absolutely no idea who he was but they did (I think the correct term here is) “shout off their mouth about me” and showed their total and utter hated at me and my agency as well as my big mouth (well the written word).  Apparently I should have learnt my place in this industry a long time back.

Have I ever said I hate this person to anyone?  In my head I have well voiced my frustration at their business methods but when all is said and done this person has a well-established and specifically run agency, however, when I interviewed a young girl yesterday (who did, incidentally not make the grade for the Angels4You Manchester escorts team) she was so shocked when I suggested that if she really did want to earn money and preferred to have structure about her bookings then this person’s agency was the one to approach.  This young girl’s jaw dropped and she then stuttered out that “but you hate them”.

Conversations later about this comment kept me entertained – this industry doesn’t half make gossip out of very little.

It is incredibly apparent that because I am different; unique; not in this for money or using others and because I don’t follow the crowd then for these reasons I will always be a target for gossip and nastiness and, unfortunately for other agency owners, if I see unprofessionalism, I will share my concerns in an open arena because I care about openness.

This girl had been recommended escorting by her friend.  Her friend never told her what was truly involved and so when this very naive young lady went out to bookings and the client indicated his desire to get personal with her, she walked away into complaints to the agency.  Don’t get me wrong, she learnt and loves the industry now but it is that initial openness that so few agency owners have – girls do need money don’t get me wrong but there are other ways to earn money and I have always believed that guiding someone on a different pathway is better in the long run for that girl’s emotional stability.  If its just money she needs, using her body should never, ever be enabled yet most agency owners are truly of the opinion that these girls know what they are doing so the attitude is “just let them”.  This is, I feel, for me, the complete crux of my resentment to so many agency owners – they are using a girl’s need for money, their emotional instability and their own insecurities as reason to use them to make them money.  This is what I cannot condone and find it really hard to come to terms with.

Yes, I am an agency owner and yes, clients request a meeting with people in the Angels4You escorts team.  What I don’t, however, do is ever agree to that escort being sold on the strength of what they do/don’t do!  Woe and betide the client that does not understand that no, in my team, really does mean no and that the girl who may have turned them down has absolutely every support for me for her stand.

Hatred is too strong a word …. I don’t like this person for a number of reasons:

• using a girl’s need for money is simply abhorrent to me whether or not they agree that they understand what they are doing
• lying about who you are and using pseudoynms is just wrong – there must be something to hide if this is the case and secrets always come out in the long run
• threatening other people to get your own way or someone out of your way – its unjust and nasty

I simply do not like nastiness but do I hate this person …. fraid not … I just feel unhappy that people have to make money on the back of someone else in the way that they do.  Do not get me wrong, they have a very successful business model that definitely gets them huge volumes of money but to do this they have to use girls who really do, for the most part, need guiding out of the industry not used within it and whilst I do recommend girls who clearly show their financial need for money to at least try this agency, I only do so when I realise that there is no way of dissuading them from the pathway they have chosen – some people simply do not have sufficient brain cells to understand what they are doing and it is all I can do when I meet this attitude to stop my real exasperation with their inadequacies to not show.  I want to help but some people seem unable to comprehend what they are doing …. ever!

Freedom to say no comes from understanding what else can be done away from this industry.  I do not believe that many agency owners believe in free choice – they do, however, believe in money (lots of it) and I also believe that they see girls who want to escort as their next fresh piece of meat from which money can be earnt.

Do I hate?  No, I don’t hate … I just don’t like this person and their ways.  Everyone else can now make of this what they will but these are my words and not second hand so for the gossips out there who like to put my words into their words …. make sure you get your facts right eh?

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