Sue: Black -v- White
A comment came in to my Angels4You inbox on Saturday. It has taken me until today to put pen to paper (well fingers to keys) and get back to the person concerned. The email said …
dear sue, iam a little disapointed, in your advertisement, being a proffesional white man, ido preffer black women,i have always been attracted to black women. Please put a beautiful black women in your advert, because black women are beautiful
My back sort of went up at this email. Initial impressions – immaturity – spelling, punctuation and grammar sprang immediately to the front for me however, I put this aside and thought through my reasons for not having any black women on the site at this time.
Since 2005 when I first went live, the following girls have been on the Angels4You team :
Bianca : Stunningly beautiful black girl who so much looked like a young Whitney Houston with the most wonderful of personalities but who had to leave because a friend discovered her “secret” and commenced blackmail – some friend eh?
Amber : Gorgeous asian girl who was a dentist who left to travel round a lot of the world
Ghazala : Challenging asian girl who was unable to know how to be truthful and never went out on any bookings
Coco : Mixed race lovely girl but she was one of the first girls in my team in 2005 and I never realised at that time how much her partner was actually pushing into escorting – yes … pimping … it did not last as I became more uncomfortable and she became (thank goodness) more assertive
Maya : Mixed race successful business woman who, for a while, was the figure head on one of the previous looks of the Angels4You website
Tian : Chinese girl, petite, soft spoken and such a beautiful personality to go with her looks
When you bring a girl onto your site who is not white (and remember here I am being factual not racial discriminatory) then you start to cut down your phone calls for that person. There are niche parts to our industry and whilst the vast majority of men desire a young white blonde with natural breasts, just a few men do prefer (like the man above who wrote the email) other ethnicities and, if you do not provide this, it is seen, at least by him, as disappointing.
Finding the right person (at least in my team) is always hard because we have such high standards to keep and there are few people who make the grade. Compounding that requirement by specifying that you want someone of a different coloured skin is a right to ask but not say you are disappointed just because Angels, as a niche agency, simply does not have his niche requirement on the site at the time he wants this. Whoever comes to me (client or girl) is treated the same whether or not they are black, white or rainbow coloured.
A large agency can cater for the minority, a niche agency cannot. For now, this person has had a response that will probably seem to him a little mean-spirited but fancy writing to an agency to say that they are disappointed because his love of black women is not catered for at Angels4You. As you can see above, other ethnicities have been in the team over the years and I presently have Saraya (asian) within our team; however just at this time, no black woman is present and therefore I am disappointing this one person. I am positive that had he looked, he would have found more than a few larger agencies with his preference and whilst I know that Angels4You escorts are not run of the mill, I am sure he would have found what he was looking for without having to send a “disappointed” email to Angels4You who do not cater for his specific niche on an everyday basis.
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