About Sue

October 16th, 2010 Leave a comment Go to comments

That’s an easy question for me seeing as I am Sue but for those of you want to know more then a brief-ish background is here for you.  I have no doubt that some people may see the fact that I have published pictures from different stages of my life as dangerous and foolhardy but I have never been one to shy away from openness …. I wanted people to be able to see how “normal” an agency owner and ex-escort can be.  I don’t live the trappings of a wealthy woman (I don’t have the money because I am too flipping principled) but I am a generally happy smiling person and I wanted to be able to share with you parts of my life that make me the person I am and sometimes, as that old saying goes, a picture tells more than words do.

Sue as a young child

I was born in 1958 (so yes I am now 52) and left school to go to College where I studied a HND in Business Studies.

 Sue RAF Days

Joining the RAF in 1977 I did my basic training at Hereford and then moved on to Shawbury to train as an Assistant Air Traffic Controller and eventually was posted to RAF Waddington where I ended up working on duty with the Flight Sergeant who had processed my recruitment papers – another story there on that subject to be told one day and take note of the old phones!


After meeting and marrying my first husband in 1978 I moved to Cyprus for over 2 years and commenced working with the Ministry of Defence in an administrative role whilst living there. Fantastic place to live and I have great memories of my wedding in Cyprus and learning to drive there.

Coming back to the UK in 1981 (the day after Charles and Lady Di married) I started work shortly after for a solicitor’s office in York. To this day, the partner I worked for (he is now mainly retired) and me are still in touch and he is my son’s godparent – a role which he really takes seriously. He was a fantastic person to work for and I am grateful for his patience and caring nature – he taught me so much. 

WeddingIn 1984 I divorced and remarried in late 1985 and managed to then fall pregnant within 4 days of our marriage date (the day I came off the pill!) and it is with startling clarity I remember being told I was pregnant by the nurse at the doctors’ surgery (no quick checks for being pregnant then) and me saying to her that she must be joking and her saying that they did not make jokes of anything that serious!

I gave birth to my son in the middle of 1986 and he qualified from University last year. I am lucky to have a great relationship with him and he helps me so much with site work as his degree is in Fine Art and Design so his visualisation and graphic skills are a complete match to my skills.

Changing jobs in 1988 after working initially for the NHS and then in a recruitment consultancy for a couple of years following the birth of my son, I went to work for KPMG in Leeds.  However. in late 1989 my second husband (my son’s father) was diagnosed with a terminal illness and he died in August 1991. He was only 42 and I was just short of being 33 years old. Within two years of his death I had gone completely white so for those of you who remember me as blonde … sorry, but my natural hair colour is totally white now but I was born a dark brunette as you can see from the pictures! Life changes us all eh?

Wedding Number 3!Unexpectedly meeting a great guy in late 1991 we became friends and subsequently married in 1998 (and yes this was my third marriage – I wonder if its wedding dresses I like to collect rather than husbands!) and whilst I am sad that he chose to have another life away from me some 5 years ago now, I am blessed with knowing who I am and why I do what I do and I can contribute a lot to my understanding of my life to his ability to make me believe in me as a person and not just a wife, mother, daughter, sister, etc.

Sue-December 05Discovering swinging when I was in my early 40’s and then getting an opportunity when I was 46 to come into escorting my life certainly changed and I have no hesitations in knowing that the steps I have taken are right for me as a person and whilst my life has its challenges and its ups and downs and sometimes I could wish I was not me because it is hard having principles and honesty in the kind of world I now choose to reside in, I certainly do not regret any of the work, career and life choices I have made.


Sometimes I know that if I could just bring my standards down and be more able to tell people where to go and swear and be nasty I would have an easier time in this industry but you know something, I like being me and I want to stay Sue … so welcome to a different outgoing, smiling and generally happy, but often, too honest, Sue and if you want to contact me at any time then mail me on sue@suesdiary.co.uk as I love hearing from different people but I don’t, to be honest, like nastiness or awkwardness so if you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say it.

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  1. Anthony Mark-Momoh
    November 11th, 2009 at 11:03 | #1

    Well… very impressive and interesting….You are one amazing woman with a very creative mind….which i think you should share by writing a book and i assure it would sell…
    Wish you all the very best…

  2. Bili
    February 2nd, 2010 at 00:19 | #2

    Hi, I really like your service and the standard. I hope that we can arrange something soon.

  3. June 13th, 2010 at 07:58 | #3

    Great post!

  4. Nick holt
    August 24th, 2010 at 16:47 | #4

    hi sue.im a 32 yr old lad who wants to get into escorting.I livi in the leeds area and am willing to travel.i have on 2 occasions been ripped off by two agencies and would reall appreciate some good advice.thanx hun.

  5. admin
    August 29th, 2010 at 15:02 | #5

    Good advice? Read http://www.sw5.info/straightmen.html and please believe it when I say …. an agency that charges you money to advertise you is a scam – please do research – try typing into Google …. male escort scams … and then think carefully about why you personally believe that there is a market for women who want to meet strangers? Do not believe the hype (and that includes your “mates”). Being attractive and well hung (and yes that is what so many believe will sell them because apparently there are hundreds of women out there just begging to buy your time) does not mean you have a female market. So sorry to be blunt but if you had done your research you would have found this out for yourself. Be careful and don’t lose any more money.

  6. September 6th, 2010 at 21:48 | #6

    I love reading stories of other escorts and escort agencies! Keep them coming Sue!

  7. Robert James
    September 20th, 2010 at 21:14 | #7

    So is there actually a market for male escorting or not??

  8. admin
    September 21st, 2010 at 19:56 | #8

    If you are a man being talked to by your mates – yes of course you are told that there must be a market for women to buy the time of male escorts because you are either “good looking”, “great personality” or “well hung” and I am sorry to be so direct. However, if you are a woman think about it, how many women do you know who bring male escorts into their sphere? I don’t really have to answer this query at all because I have directed many people to the site http://www.sw5.info/straightmen.htm and it is clear from there that if there is a market, it is very, very small but you should be doing your own thorough research and I know this sounds daft but for everything I have done, I have done a business plan and yes you can do a business plan for this industry too – not easy but research is your key and I would put the query back to you in the form of “why do you believe (if you do) that there is a market for male escorts”? I have, of course, assumed that we are both talking about straight males not bi or gay males as the latter market certainly rivals the female escort one. I may have come across as slightly annoyed at your comment but I try to give as much opportunity for people to find out for themselves – how much research have you done as the information is there to find if you spend the time looking for it.

  9. interestedparty
    October 31st, 2010 at 20:19 | #9

    @Anthony Mark-Momoh
    I agree Sue, you should write a book… Your writing style is great and it sounds like you have a really interesting tale to tell.

  10. Mikey
    November 4th, 2010 at 13:20 | #10

    I have been reading your blog Sue for the first time.Im impressed and enspired by your way of thinking.Escorting doesnt have to be a a business jsut for men,its a business for escorts to express themselves and be in control of their business.
    I also believe in treating escorts as time spent with graet company rather than time spent with a great body..Im a man who believes in enpowering women to feel convident and shame free of their social skills and charm.
    I will contiue to read your blog as im in the process of opening an escort agency myself(no compeition to yours though lol).Lots of valuable info from you..I respect women as i come from a woman.Us men need to realise this..Sofistication and class is what im seeking.

  11. vicki
    November 7th, 2010 at 09:43 | #11

    finally info ive been looking for! im about to start an escort agency, web site nearly finished but have loads of questions that need answering and no one to ask. your web site is great. will be consulting it A LOT ..cheers me dear x

  12. Rich Skinner
    February 27th, 2011 at 22:32 | #12

    Absolutley love your story Sue. You are a massive inspiration.


  13. Charlie
    May 21st, 2011 at 13:52 | #13

    Your website is very interesting and informative…. i am especially interested as i am hoping to go into the world of escorting.. although have never ever done before and looking for further advise or tips. Also any agencies you know of in London that have a good rep???

  14. admin
    May 22nd, 2011 at 17:28 | #14

    Charlie – have sent you a message on email : don’t forget to read the diary entry called “Can I Recommend an Escort Agency”

  15. Kathryn Simmonds
    July 27th, 2011 at 01:01 | #15

    Hi sue,
    I am 18 years old and looking to go into the escorting business to save up to go to uni. I live in the Nottingham area and was wondering if you have any suggestions of any agencies i could go to that are actually legit.

    Thanks :)

  16. Chris
    September 15th, 2011 at 13:16 | #16

    Dear Sue
    I wonder if you can give me some advice.
    I have applied to be an Escort i am a mature lady in my 50s, is is normal for the agency to ask for money upfront over the phone even without seeing or meeting you, If any of this is acceptable can you tell me how much upfront is Normal & is it likely as i have not been see & no photo has been given that i will get any clients?.
    I live in the Essex area.
    Please can you let me know as soon as you can.
    Thank you & i appreciate your help.

  17. admin
    September 18th, 2011 at 16:37 | #17

    Email on it’s way to you Chris – the answers are already within the diary but links have been sent to your email address and – again – NEVER pay any agency to promote you. They will always (in this industry) be scams. Type into google “escort scams” and be wary of anyone ever asking you for money. These kind of agencies prey on your naivety and your thoughts that you can get hundreds of pounds for nothing. If something sounds to good to be true in this industry – it will be.

  18. admin
    September 20th, 2011 at 20:16 | #18

    Kat – answer finally on email for you. So sorry for the huge delay!

  19. Dani
    September 26th, 2011 at 00:06 | #19

    Hi Sue,
    I have come across your blog and you sound like a very interesting lady.
    Do you hae any idea of agencies in the south west area, I am very keen on becoming an escort however I just dont know where to start. Any information would be amazing.
    I dont want to be scammed or be in any dangerous/threatening situations.
    Thankyou for your time, any advice would e mucly appreciated
    Dani x

  20. admin
    September 28th, 2011 at 20:38 | #20

    Dani hi – answer already sent on email to you.

  21. Trish
    October 7th, 2011 at 17:32 | #21

    Hi Sue

    I am 23 and looking to become an escort, I did try one agency but as I researched further I found that on a site that it was a possible scam, firstly they asked for money upfront for a registration fee for 12 months to use their services that they provide and secondly I had only asked to enquire and then they seemed to find me a client straight away. So I did research before going any further, I had my doubts when they asked for money up front as I almost got caught out before on something else.

    Although the person seemed friendly now that I have looked into it further I started to feel in my gut that it didn’t seem right. I live in the Essex area around the south east of London and was just wondering if you know of anywhere that I could sign up to.

    Any information would be great

    Many thanks


  22. admin
    October 9th, 2011 at 09:18 | #22

    Trish – response on its way to you and yet again, the answers are in my diary and yes, when an escort agency wants money upfront – it IS a scam. If you choose to believe otherwise then by all means lose your money but all you need to do is type into any search engine “escort scams” and read what is readably available for all to understand. Good luck and my only advice – don’t enter escorting – the industry is, on the whole, not quite as professional as you may think.

  23. October 20th, 2011 at 09:03 | #23

    hi sue i am looking to go into escorting i live in manchester area i am 40 years old and would be interested in talkin to you about your agency? and get some invaluable advice from you x your blog is fantstic by the way very informative looking forward to hearing from you sarah

  24. miss no-nonsense
    October 21st, 2011 at 12:35 | #24

    Hi sue,i would greatly appreciate your advice please ive been considering going into the escort industry, freelance, for a while now.Ive been swinging for a while so im very comfortable around people and love the fun and i must admit the financial side of it would be helpful aswell.Please could you provide me with information on how to get the ball rolling so to speak.Thankyou.

  25. admin
    October 21st, 2011 at 21:31 | #25

    Response on email on its way to you Sandy – remember – I NEVER recommend escorting to anyone with any kind of financial need no matter if it is just a “helpful” need. This industry is not something you should ever enter for money no matter how minor the need.

  26. admin
    October 21st, 2011 at 22:10 | #26

    Sarah – answer on its way on email

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